“You’re an angel!” Now that’s compliment, don’t you think? That’s something I certainly wouldn’t mind being described as! Though these days, so many people are saying “hey, babe!” “How are ya babe?” “What’s up babe!” “how you doin babe?” “love ya babe!”
I’m really quite sick of the word babe. However, to give people some credit, I will say that one reason these titles are thrown around quite a bit is because lots of women fit these ‘moulds’. Not always. But, it’s rare to come across a woman who I would describe as angelic. I think angelic qualities are a beautiful thing for a woman to have.
Moreover, Angelic qualities are seen in women who are quite advanced in their awareness, consciousness and femininity. An angelic woman is usually a woman who sees and feels beyond the immediate message.
She is an awakened soul.
For example, if a girlfriend tells her: “omg, I really hate [insert name]“, an angelic woman wouldn’t take that for gospel. She knows there’s something deeper and sees the person for WHO they are. Not what they do or say. She would see that this anger is just a symptom of something deeper. And that her girlfriend is probably feeling hurt and unloved somewhere deep inside.
I believe angels are all around us, disguised as humans.
The dictionary tells us that angelic means:
like or befitting an angel, esp. in virtue, beauty, etc. Of or belonging to angels; A guardian spirit or guiding influence; a kind and lovable person; a typically benevolent celestial being that acts as an intermediary between heaven and earth.
In my view, typically, when someone says “you’re an angel”, they’re implying that you’ve made something better than is originally was. Or that you’re a gift from heaven. Perhaps they could also mean that you’re a breath of fresh air, that you represent true virtue, or that you are a healer.
I don’t recommend that every woman be purely angelic. But, angelic qualities in a woman are definitely something special, don’t you think?
“Angels are always memorable because they never forget what really matters”
What REALLY matters in your life? Is it your career? What you get? How you look? These things may be important to you, but what really DOES matter to you?
To me, what really matters is the memories we create. Many of us miss the sweetest moments in life. We forget that we always have a chance to stop and appreciate and love. Life is too short for dwelling on every little misfortune and thinking: “oh, this always happens to ME!”
Things happen in life – we may lose a wallet full of money, a special watch given to us by our lover, a special necklace from our mom, or a card from a special friend. And these things are painful but what really matters is your relationships with those who mean the most to you. What really matters is all the little blessings in life, and whether you see them or not.
What matters is how you life your life. Not what HAPPENS to you. This is the attitude of an awakened soul; an angelic woman.
Angels are healers
Most people are too busy figuring their own lives out to heal other people. After all, you cannot help others until you have yourself figured out! But in every single tragedy there is a huge gift to be realized. Angelic women are able to heal a sorrowful moment with a soft touch, with a SMILE, with a kiss, with a hug.
I have never ceased to notice throught my life that often, it’s very hard for people (and myself) to show others affection, or even ACCEPTANCE. But part of having that angelic, awakened soul part of you as a woman is having the ability to empathize with EVERYONE. ALL living things. Many of us aren’t conditioned to be like this.
She has the ability to connect with ANYONE. Even if they’re not in the same social circle, or “socio-economic” background. These things don’t matter to the awakened soul. The awakened soul cares about everyone. A difficult place to get to for pretty much all of us!
So, any time you get the chance, perhaps listen to an old man’s story that he’s told over and over. Help a child who is lost in the mall. Speak to a distressed person on the street, and see people for who they are, rather than what they do. This is often really hard because most of us have been conditioned to categorize people, and to eliminate them or consider them “losers” based on certain behaviour.
An angelic woman and awakened soul knows that deep down, we all have the same needs and that we all have the capability to connect with and love and care for one another.
This is part of healing; seeing people for who they are; not what they do.
Angels are messengers and they SEE messages
Have you ever had a moment in your life where you felt like your life was guided? Maybe you had been thinking about a dear friend whom you haven’t seen in years, and you’re going about your daily business and they suddenly turn up in front of you – and you wonder what just happened? You may have thought: “What a coincidence! How did this just happen?!! I was just thinking of you!”
I love these moments. They are such a blessing.
Was it a coincidence?
Have you ever wished for something to happen? Maybe you hoped for a small pet, and one day you got it! Perhaps you hoped for friendship with someone – but wasn’t sure how to go about befriending them, and felt too scared to open to friendship with them – and suddenly, they make a move to befriend YOU?
These moments are a blessing!
See, a woman with angelic qualities is able to SEE that in many ways, our lives are guided. An angelic woman is an awakened soul who is a messenger. What do I mean by messenger?
A messenger is a woman who sees that life is not just a succession of events thatrandomly occur. This is a job most masculine men take up most of the time. They sit there, detached in observation. A woman knows more than that (so can a man). But the angelic woman is a spiritual being who sees the true message:
That there are miracles, and that they DO happen. Miracles are everywhere. This doesn’t mean that there isn’t also tragedy, but the awakened soul/angelic woman sees that there are always people around the world making love, children being born, people crying in happiness, children playing, and people falling in love, even when tragedy occurs.
Finally, some more traits of an angelic woman:
1) Has and keeps faith even when there’s every reason not to.
2) Loves her children/family/boyfriend or husband through any behaviour. Let me say though, that LOVING someone doesn’t mean that you stay with them. Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to keep them in your life. Loving someone means that your heart is open. You can still recognize when you shouldn’t stay in a relationship, but at the same time, you’re willing to still send your love rather than wallow in resentment and hate.
3) An angelic woman realizes that life’s biggest fulfilment and happiness comes when you live it for others. And this doesn’t mean that she neglects herself! Not at all. In fact, she takes very good care of herself, and respects the life she has been given very much. But she knows that her real value and personal power comes from what she can give to others.
4) Softness in disposition. An angelic woman is soft. She is a friend. Someone who is welcoming and warm. She usually does things with charm.
5) An angel is a spirit-centric rather than ego-centric. She unites feelings with knowledge.
6) She doesn’t accept limitations in her life or in other people’s lives.
7) An angelic woman knows that life’s true value is in the moments. Not the results. Not always in the outcome.
8 ) An angel has a light energy. Her energy is not heavy, fake and guarded. She walks past and you are drawn to her energy. Her tranquility.
Some examples of Angelic women:
Louise L Hay
Mother Teresa
Princess Diana
Helen Andelin
Sage Robbins (Wife of Anthony Robbins)
Angelina Jolie
Hello Cupcakes!!!
I super duper agree with this...don't you?!
xoxo:-)
- The Feminine Woman -
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