How to Get the Attention of Men - 20 Tips to Attract the Attention of Men
You're probably already aware doves, that the extremal PACKAGING of a product plays an important and even indispensable role in marketing. Well, the same applies to youdear hearts! In fact, all commodities require a strong visual display factor.
Normally too, the human mind is sensitive to any strong stimuli - such as bright colors and bright lights for example. And, if your goal is to attract the attention of men, or to attract a good man's attention, then your feminine image is important in every little detail!
You know cupcakes, thousands of people will pass a store window every day, without being able to name, or even give the color of a single article in the store window And, if you don't pay attention to the consumer (men,) then you risk being ignored or removed from the shelves altogether!
For MEN too, a woman's feminine image and presence must be so attractive and desirable, as to cause him to temporarily forget himself - and have his thoughts turned directly to YOU - the woman in view.
Moreover, the attention of men only gravitates toward the FEMININE, well-groomed, beautifully dressed and nice smelling women. And, this is exactly how you'll need to be coming across, in order to attract attention from the sea of men - if you wish to impress one of them.
The external appearance of feminine women, assures the way they SHINE.
So doves, in order to shine and attract the attention of men, there has to be something about your personal appearance which stands out - to the extent of detracting your male prospect's attention from whatever he, or they, are doing. The external should always refer to your inner state as well.
By the way, ignore your feminist friends if they start criticizing you for wanting to look more feminine and desirable to men, as most feminists hate men. Many feminists also have the erroneous belief that it's impossible to be smart, and beautiful.
As for a radical feminist, her image states to men; "I'm smart (and hard and sharp.) But beauty isn't part of the package because I despise men."
Now, getting back to getting the attention of men, a man's attention may be won and directed, as well as attracted and guided. And, here are some very good, and time-testedtips to attract the attention of men, and to leave a favorable impression on them....
20 Time-Tested Tips to Attract the Attention of Men
1. Make a rule not to ever leave the house without make-up. It's important that your face is always smooth and fresh looking, with a healthy skin color and slight blush. A touch of mascara and lip-gloss will complete the effect.
2. Don't forget to keep up with you manicures and pedicures. Dirty and/or chipped finger nails is a virtual crime for which you'll pay the penalty! For many men, well-groomed hands are an indicator of elegance and sophistication in women as well.
Moreover, men instinctively follow the motions of your hands. You can use this knowledge to draw a man's attention to the best parts of your body too ;-)
3. Wear long, flowing hair styles - long and flowing hair has always been associated with femininity. And, when you're talking to your boyfriend, husband, or an attractive single man, don't forget to play with your hair while talking to him, playfully wrapping a lock of your hair around your finger ;-)
And, avoid having straggly or greasy-looking hair like the plague!
4. Do regular hair removal. Eyebrows plucked, and no visible 'mustache,' arm-pit hair, or stubbly, hairy legs!
5. Wear a light touch of beautiful perfume. All the better if it's a unique and rare perfume!
6. Pamper yourself with regular facials (which you can also do at home,) a new dress and pair of shoes. Don't deny yourself the pleasure of taking a bath either - with lovely-smelling bath salts and oils of course!
7. The style and quality of your clothing should PLEASE, rather than repel. And, when it comes to a lady's dress, the attention she gets from men may be positive or negative. In order to receive positive attention from men, dress fashionably, stylishly, and with a classy elegance.
This instantly stamps you in the mind of a male prospect as having good taste.
Good taste also happens to leave a favorable impression on a man's mind, which helps to put you in the good graces of your prospect. Moreover, the first impression practically decides whether you'll be noticed, and possibly granted enough time in the presence of your prospect for things to develop further!
But remember my feminine coquettes, that expensive doesn't necessarily mean classy or stylish.
"Fine feathers do not always make fine birds!"
8. Look FEMININE - pretty, soft, gentle.... And, whether your feminine style is a 50's 'fluffy kitten,' or a bombshell or bohemian.... remember you must always look like a feminine woman - even in the office. By the way cupcakes, a male boss isn't interested in a 'robot,' he's interested in an attractive woman - who's also classy and a professional.
To dress more feminine, and look more feminine, try to wear dresses or skirts instead of shorts or trousers. Moreover, to look sexy, but classy, the hemline of your dress, or skirt, should be no higher than the knee. However, there can be a slit going up one leg (though make sure that it doesn't go too high doves!)
In addition, allow your top or blouse to reach as far up as under your neck, but allow it to open up at your shoulders – showing some bare skin there. Or wear a high collared top with some lace across the chest area.
And, don't forget that your clothes and shoes should always be in perfect condition too.
9. On the right occasions, wear seam or lace stockings. This is also a time-tested method for effectively attracting the attention of men: And, all day long the one you want may be picturing your legs in stockings, and dreaming about you ;-)
10. Regularly exercise. At least a 30 minute walk each day, and light weight exercises allow yourself to stay slender and toned. Also cupcakes, for many men, the most attractive part of the female figure is her behind, so don't forget that.
11. Get SLEEP and rest.
12.. Act freely and gracefully. In fact, study the poised, graceful and lady-like ways of moving about, of handling articles, of sitting and rising, and of standing properly and easily. You may even notice that some women will actually fall into a chair like a bag of wheat dropped several feet!
Yet a PERFECTLY POISED AND GRACEFUL lady will gain our admiration by the graceful, poised and easy manner in which the movements of her body are conducted.
All these things are amenable in the eyes of others, and are worth a serious study by any woman who desires to attain the largest measure of success - in not only her professional life, but her personal life.
So, keep your back straight standing, and even if you're sitting in a comfortable chair. Your back should be flat against the chair and your chin slightly raised proudly.
13. Your SENSUALITY should be showing in your sensual gait, your eyes and your smile. Practice walking around swaying your hips, wiggling your behind, and turning around around on your high heels ;-)
As for your GAZE, that may catch a desirable man looking at you, allow your gaze to look at him for about five seconds - to light the spark. This female gaze is the most sexy to men and causes a flame!
Your sensuality should also be showing in the timbre of your voice, and in the softness, smoothness and sleekness of your movements.
14. High status men are attracted to a woman with a quiet DISTINCTION AND DIGNITY. A woman who carries herself in a dignified elegance. Be the lady sitting next to the knight! A loud voice is also out. And, you should know your own worth and present yourselfaccordingly.
15. Other qualities which create an ideal feminine appearance, as well as attract the attention of men are; serenity, BEAUTIFUL MANNERS, and a thoughtful consideration for others - manifested in everything that that you say and do.
16. There must also be an air of QUEENLY CONFIDENCE & CREDIBILITY about you, which leads your male prospect to determine intuitively that you're a credible and trustworthy woman.
Rarely can this trait be successfully faked either, so make sure that this laudable requisite of femininity is genuine within you.
17. Have a QUEENLY PRESENCE too. In our case, presence is defined as the united personal qualities of a woman - as revealed by her general bearing. The appearance of her whole body - taken as a whole unit- is always significant.
In fact, a woman's general bearing is more eloquent than any movements. It tells others more about her temperament and character too. For that very reason, much of a woman's seductive power depends on her presence. It also goes without saying that presence, or general appearance, is largely affected by dress.
18. To have a man see you as a woman who deserves to be treated with love, respect and AWE, you must first learn to love and respect yourself. Tend to yourself and adore yourself! Such a woman is respected, appreciated and loved by the strong alpha men -who'll give you what you want.
19. Be CONVINCING with your value. Remember doves, a man gives his attention to a woman not just because he's attracted to her, and is interested in her, but also because he becomes convinced by her presence, bearing and of course, by her personality and character.
He becomes convinced that he'll gain a benefit from being with her!
20. Finally cupcakes, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. Within you is the potential and power to lead your male prospect all the way along your road - and all the way to the altar! ;-)
I hope you enjoyed my article; 'How to Get the Attention of Men - 20 Time-tested Tips to Attract the Attention of Men.'
**Homework; A 'life study' for you!
Sitting at some place that's bustling with activity (such as a busy cafe,) try to locate on the social and desirability scale, the women you see. Observe them closely (but subtly ;-)) Then record your observations in a notebook, giving a brief written description of the characters you've studied. Moreover, when a striking or poised woman presents herself, you can impersonate the 'study' when you go home. This work can be very interesting and valuable!
-Art of being feminine-
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